Sexual Health

If anyone has the time and or inclination to help keep this page up to date we would greatly appreciate your help and give you full acknowledgement.

I have added this page due to the rising number of STD/STI's in the adult population in general and the swinging scene in particular.

The swinging scene for as long as I can remember has been pretty much clear of STD/STI's, but lately due to the increasing numbers of people in the scene the incidence of infection is a growing problem. In the past most people in the scene knew each other before they played, but these days a large proportion of swinging is happening in clubs with complete strangers whose contact details are never collected, or in complete anonymity in car parks when people go dogging. This means that should someone find out they have caught an infection they have no way of telling the people that they played that they may have passed the infection on to them, or on to others.

There are lots of myths about STD/STI's this page will deal with some of them. If you think you may be infected please visit a doctor as soon as possible, before you have sex with anyone else.

  • Myth - I only had oral sex, so I'm OK.
  • Fact - STD's/STI's are not only passed on through intercourse - some, including Chlamydia, can be passed on through oral sex.

  • Myth - I have cold sores, so I cannot get genital herpes.
  • Fact - You can get herpes simplex - the same virus that causes cold sores on the genitals. The only safe way to have sex with a person who has Herpes Simplex is to always use a barrier such as a condom.

  • Myth - HIV/AIDS is only in found in the Gay/Homosexual scene.
  • Fact - the numbers of cases of HIV in the heterosexual population is increasing, it is true this is mainly in immigrants from sub-Sahara Africa, but it is appearing in the Canadian Heterosexual population as well.

  • Myth - I caught Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, syphilis from a toilet seat.
  • Fact - not 100% impossible, but probably 99.99999% impossible. If you or your partner has caught a STD/STI, they have caught it through sexual contact with someone else.
    Gonorrhea is now becoming drug resistant. If you are prescribed medicines for any infection please complete the course and get another check up, even if the symptoms disappear.

  • Myth - I have no discharge, so I have no infection.
  • Fact - the most prevalent STD/STI in the Western world now is Chlamydia. It does not always have any visible signs, but if you are female and have Chlamydia you stand a high risk of becoming infertile, Many of the other STD's/STI's also do not show signs in between 10-40% of cases.

  • Myth - We only played using sex toys, so we cannot catch anything.
  • Fact - If one partner is infected it is possible to pass the infection on via an unwashed sex toy - Genital Warts are often spread this way.

If any health workers with a knowledge of Std's have the time and the inclination to help me keep this page up to date please get in touch.

Do not be afraid to go along for a check up if you suspect you may have caught something. there is no shame attached to attending a special clinic for a test, there is shame attached to dying needlessly from not taking the time to have a check up. Jo and I get checked regularly. Happily so far I have only had NSU's, Jo has been in the clear.

  • NSU - is a non specific Urinary infection. this can be caused by having sex with someone who has the infection, but also by eating spicy foods, drinking to much alcohol especially in sunny weather. the treatment varies from nasty drugs for 2 weeks to three heavy duty bunker buster tablets which should clear infection within 7-14 days.

With all infections, remember to go back for the follow up. Failure to do so could mean that the infection is still there - you could still be infected and infect others.

Not completing a course of treatment also leads to infections becoming drug resistant.

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